One month away from my 38th birthday, I am reflecting upon life lessons and pearls of wisdom. While I may not have half the wisdom of someone in their 70’s; I definitely have more wisdom than when I was in my 20’s. If I could go back and talk to my younger self, I would most definitely tell her to not be afraid to seek support, to let down the walls and find strength in people around her. Over the years what I have come to learn is that sometimes we need a shoulder to cry